Some clarification. I wasn't able to get to this post until now.
"An astronaut always feels the gravity from a nearby planet"
I think you what mean here is that gravity always acts on the astronaut from a nearby planet, which I agree with. Yes, the 1/r^2 law never goes away.
What I am trying to understand is what would a person feel when there is deceleration towards the planet to slow them down. I know that on Jupiter with g =25, that means a person weighs several hundreds of pounds, which as I have understood is such a large force on the person that the heart cannot even pump blood. Astronauts taking off for launch have their net acceleration in the same direction as a decelerating astronaut slowing down on approach to the planet; in the former case the astronaut is speeding up (velocity increasing) away from the planet as they launch away, in the case I am considering the astronaut is also accelerating away from the planet (or decelerating towards the planet), but their velocity decreases as they slow down. This would be the thrusters of jbriggs444 comment. I read some books where the astronaut said that during launch, they feel a constriction or tightness on their body which they attributed to the increased weight of takeoff. I admit that this post has helped me to flush out that I may not have understood quite what I read in this regard. Anyway, I was trying to understand if an astronaut decelerating would feel something similar since they would have the same net upwards acceleration.
"An astronaut never feels the gravity from anything, near or far unless either (1) the thrusters" from JBriggs444.
But what about when you stand on the ground or sit in a chair and the normal force acts on you? The Normal force just balances your weight in both cases, and I can feel the chair/floor touching me. I went skydiving once and was in freefall for a little while but I didn't feel anything on my body. It was these two experiences I have been thinking of where I try to understand if I can perceive my weight or not.
"I figure my perspective would show that the only time you wouldn't feel Jupiter's gravity is when you're moving at (Jupiter's) orbital velocity." This is DaveC's comment. I would agree here, but wouldn't this also be a freefall, like when I was skydiving?
"You will feel the effect of deceleration."
Maybe this helps to clarify what I am really after. What is felt in the body? again, I am thinking of the astronaut on the launch pad with the constriction in their chest. I understand that if my ship accelerates in the non-inertial frame I will see things in my ship move past me (there is a NASA video showing what I think pertains to this where the astronauts aren't touching the space station but then it accelerates--they stay still and the ship moves past them)
"This may be much greater than three gees."
Yes, certainly, I agree there.
"Presumably OP meant antonym of heavier, i.e. lighter."
Yes, correct, I could not think of the correct antonym. What is the correct antonym, if there is even one?