StatGuy2000
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homeylova223 said:My thought is if some people are winners then some people just have to be loser. You cannot have a winner without a loser. Sometimes you just have to conceded you are loser.
Sometime your only to option is to fail and failure is the only option.
As @Dale already said, what you said above is only true for zero-sum games. But finding jobs is not a zero-sum game.
The funny thing about employment (and other areas of life) is that the more you become morose, depressed, fatalistic or pessimistic (e.g calling yourself a loser), the more it shows through in your manner (whether in your appearance, gestures, manner of speaking), and the more people are turned off by this. I don't like to use woo-woo mystical language (being naturally hostile to such things), but there is something to the saying of people giving off "negative energy".
So the key thing is to stay determined, work harder at seeking work, work to improve your interviewing techniques, and sharpen whatever skills you need for the type of job you ultimately want. It's a long game (there was a time in my life where I waited nearly a year for a job, so I know how much of a struggle it can be) but the more you try, and the more you display an optimistic attitude, the greater the probability that you will land something.
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