Arivero: the deBroglie wavelengths of massive bosons are indeed quite small, and so they usually do not escape the nucleus. In fact the first theory of beta decays proposed a model of a point-like interaction between the nucleons and the two leptons observed in beta decay. This model is valid at low energies (far below the W mass). As far as the energy for the boson is concerned, it need not be there as the mediating W is not on its mass shell - this is the infamous virtual particle mechanism.
Turin: surely you've seen Gaussian curves before? I was certainly not suggesting the cross section both decreases and increases at the same time. However, since our conversation, I have become aware that the cross section of neutrinos does some strange things, so I will defer further posts on this topic until I get some clear information.