The_Duck said:
twofish-quant, I readily conceed that you have far more experience than I and your advice is likely to be far more valuable. My above post is the relatively uninformed perspective of a college senior.
Curiously one thing that I try not to do is to give advice. I try to tell stories. One set of stories involves the bad advice that I've gotten from people that were older than me. :-) :-) :-)
Your parents care about you. Your friends care about you. Your co-workers and teachers care about you. Individuals care about individuals. But institutions like universities and corporations don't care about you. Yes, you might have to put on funny party hats and jump through hoops to get a job, but at some point you just have to look at the committee and say "I really don't give a flying flop about what you want me to do because you really don't care about me."
My boss at work is a nice caring person. However he and I are part of a big corporate bureaucracy and that bureaucracy doesn't care about me or him, and that bureaucracy will toss us both off the airplane if they think that they can make some money off of it. What's really funny is that the system is intentionally designed so that there is no one person that you can point to do say "I can get mad at that person."
Everyone is just doing their jobs. Everyone is nice and sympathetic, but in the end you end up with a knife in your back. Personally, I think it's funny, and I can think it's funny because my career is not at the center of my existence. So when I get stabbed in the back and tossed off the train, I'm leaving with a smile on my face. Literally. The last time I got laid off, I was in a better mood than the person that was laying me off.
One other thing that I've found. When I was seventeen, I expected to grow up one day. The idea that I had was that one day I'd get to the end of the rainbow, and there would be a pot of gold. That you'd get a career, a family, and nice house, the whole deal. You get the job and the wife and the career, and everything would end up living happily ever after. However, I've figured out that life really doesn't work that way. There isn't a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. You never live happily ever after. But the reason I'm mentioning this is that I think I would have been happier knowing that being unhappy was "normal."
But that's not a bad thing for me. I try to look at live as an adventure. Good things happen. Bad things happen. But if you look at life as adventure, you end up living one day after the next, until you die.
One other reason for not caring too much about what the committee thinks is that they may not know what to do. If you are graduating right now, then life is going to be painful for you. Unemployment is at 10%. No one has any clue when that is going down, and I don't think anyone knows what to do about it. There are a lot of questions about "should I do this or should I do that." The truth for a lot of these questions is the answer is "no one knows and you are going to have to figure it out for yourself."
I have no idea what the world is going to look like in a decade, and I don't think anyone else does either. Now, if you get a good education, then this should help you to figure out how to respond to the situation, and that's more important than getting a good GPA.