When the plates of a charged capacitor are gradually separated, the charge on the plates remains constant, while the capacitance decreases and the voltage increases inversely. This process leads to an increase in stored energy, as the energy is proportional to both capacitance and voltage squared. The additional energy required comes from the work done to overcome the attractive force between the plates during separation. The discussion highlights that in a theoretical vacuum, the charge does not dissipate but rather intensifies due to the increased voltage. Overall, separating the plates of a capacitor results in higher voltage and energy, contrary to initial assumptions about charge loss.