Pengwuino said:
The hallway you walk through is occasionally frequented by a Nobel Prize winner.
Which helps you when you realize that some Nobel prize winners are jerks. Something that did help me in going to MIT is that since I've seen Nobel prize winners up close, I'm really not in awe of them. They are human just like the rest of us, and some of them are just total jerks.
The other thing is that Nobel prize winners aren't limited to the Ivies. If you go to UT Austin astronomy, you will run into Nobel prize winners rather regularly. There's no one there that is a jerk, but there was one winner that was a total crackpot if you got him starting to talk on a particular topic that was outside of what he got his prize in.
Just to give you the type of thing that I learned in graduate school. At one friday lunch we got to talking about astrophysics, and then resident Nobel prize winner started asking my about the topic of my research (i.e. supernova). It soon become obvious to me that he didn't know anything about supernova. It was an interesting experience that made me realize that "Nobel prize winners are human." He didn't get his prize in supernova, and there was no reason to expect him to know anything about the topic, and he was asking me lots of questions because I was doing research on the topic, he wasn't, so he thought it was a good idea for me to teach him what I knew. My advisor knew a ton more than I did, but he wasn't at the lunch.
On a more serious note, think of it this way: the best people attend the best universities.
Which means that if you attend a competitive university, you more likely than not are going to find yourself at the bottom of the class. That's not necessarily a bad thing. I have incredible amounts of sympathy for someone that "just doesn't get math" because I've been in that situation myself.
One thing that you have to learn when you are with the "best" is that you really aren't that good. Learning to deal with your own incompetence is one of those life skills.
You're surrounded by people who are much more competitive than you would see elsewhere, more is expected of you, etc. People working there are better capable of getting grants, expected to published more, do better research, etc. This, of course, creates a positive feedback with good research and lots of money creating better labs and more recognition bringing in even better students who work even harder etc etc.
Until you end up in a mental hospital with a nervous breakdown. I'm not kidding about that. I think one anonymous mental health survey at MIT showed that 90% of the people responding admitted to some major mental health issue within the last year.
More is expected from you and the work ethic can't be the same as someone who goes to a random second tier school in middle-of-nowhere, USA.
Until you burn out and then wonder if it is really worth it. I can pretty much guarantee if you go to MIT that you will have some sort of nervous breakdown while you are there.
Also, one thing about Ivy League schools (at least Harvard and MIT) is that they really don't try to screw you over with the grading system. One thing that I think that MIT does better than UT Austin is that UT Austin sets up the grading to weed out students, whereas MIT will let you fail freshmen physics without any penalty.
Also, the better the university, the more you're pretty much on your own. At my university, which is indeed a second tier university, students are coddled and if they don't know something, it's fine. The professors can't expect much and the environment isn't conducive to pushing students to learn. If students don't know something, it's the instructors fault. At the better universities, that thinking is laughable.
That's not true.
One thing about MIT is that it takes student evaluations very very seriously. The reason for this is that if you go to UT Austin, and you have a class of students that think the instructor is incompetent, then you can argue that its the fault of the students. You really can't argue that with MIT. If you have a bunch of MIT students that think that you are an incompetent teacher (even if you have a Nobel prize) then the odds are good that you are in fact an incompetent teacher.
There are a reasonably large number of incompetent teachers at MIT, because undergraduate teaching is not the primary focus of MIT, research is.
One of the things that MIT does that I think is very different from UT Austin is that student opinions are given far, far more respect by the administration and alumni. You have students on the major faculty committees, and you have student input on the major governance issues.