No, infinity is NOT a "very very big real number". All the real numbers have the property that, for any real number, x, x+ 1 is even larger. There are a variety of ways of defining positive and negative "infinity" geometrically, for example, in such a way that the set of all real numbers and positive and negative "infinity" is 'homeomorphic' to the interval [a, b] for any real numbers, a, b, a< b. But one can also define a single "infinity" so that the set of all real numbers and this one "infinity" is homeomorphic to a circle in a plane. Once can define "hyper-real" numbers that include notions of "infinite numbers" as well as "infinitesimal numbers" that satisfy certain arithmetic rules. But in none of those cases can you do "regular" arithmetic, with the usual arithmetic rules for the real numbers, with "infinity".