Let give names to things so we can talk about them precisely.
\mbox{V(t)} = the volume at time
t.
\mbox{h(t)} = the height of the water at time
t.
\mbox{r(t)} = the radius of the (surface of the) water at time
t.
\mbox{p} = the height divided by the radius.
Let's look over what you are told:
A coffee filter has the shape of an inverted cone.
So what do we know about cones? Well, we know that when the water fills the cone, it will take the shape of the cone, and we know the volume of this cone:
<br />
V(t) = \frac{1}{3} \pi r(t)^2 h(t)<br />
We also know that the cone of water will have the same ratio of height to radius as the big cone. Thus
<br />
p = \frac{h(t)}{r(t)}<br />
Water drains out of the filter at a rate 10cm^3/min.
So we have:
<br />
V'(t) = 10 \frac{\mathrm{cm}^3}{\mathrm{min}}<br />
When the depth of water in the cone is 8cm, the depth is decreasing at 2cm/min.
Which is translated as:
<br />
h(t) = 8 \mathrm{cm} \rightarrow h'(t) = 2 \frac{\mathrm{cm}}{\mathrm{min}}<br />
Do you understand how I translated the problem into equations? See if you can now solve for
p; if you get stuck, show us everything you tried then we'll give you more pointers.