He's right, not understanding something is nothing to be sorry for. You'll eventually get it, even if you develop a few grey hairs along the way.
I said further up, just do basic vector addition, place the vectors on a graph tip to tail.
I'll explain this in the form of an analogy, say you have a list of steps you need to make in a dance. Each one of those could be the vectors.
Take 4 steps to the left
Take 2 steps forward
Take 9 steps to the right
The purpose of this 'dance' is to move you to a spot on the floor, in this case the resulting location will have a table with a fancy top hat on it. Each step moves you over a certain number of steps at a time in a certain direction.
Now imagine you made arrows for each of the dances steps. So you made one that was the same length as 4 steps, one that was 2 steps long, and one that was 9 steps long.
To plan where you want the fancy table with the top hat to go, you need to know where you're going to end up right?
Well you have a bunch of arrows, each of which has a length that equals the distance covered in each step respectively.
So all you have to do is lay the arrows down in order, in the proper directions. So put the first one facing left from your starting position. Then place the second arrow at the end of the first, facing forward, etc.
Then you have a bunch of arrows which zig zag their way to the spot you'll end up, and you now know where to place your stylish new hat.
Picture that for a bit. If you get the idea keep reading.
Now let's put this in context of vectors on a graph. The number of 'steps' in the analogy above is what we call a magnitude. It doesn't have any direction, it's just a plain scalar value. It just means the amount of something. That's just saying the arrow is however many steps long. In order for it to be a vector it must have a direction as well.
That's where the north, south, east, west directions come in. They define what direction the vector points. That's how we were able to properly place the arrows in the analogy above.
So in order to figure out where you're going to end up, place back end of the first "arrow" on your starting location, (position 0,0). Then place the back end of the next vector on the tip of the one before it facing the right direction, and so on.
When you finish placing all these vectors (the arrows) tip to tail in the right orientation and order, the final arrow will point to the resulting location.
Do you understand the idea now?