Why isn't giving cash on birthday considered a taboo?

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The discussion centers on the taboo surrounding giving cash as a birthday gift. Many believe that traditional gifts carry sentimental value, which contributes to the perception that cash is less thoughtful. Despite a preference for cash to purchase desired items, there is a societal pressure to conform to the norm of receiving physical gifts. The conversation highlights the conflict between personal preferences and social expectations, with some individuals feeling unable to advocate for cash gifts without risking their acceptance among peers. Additionally, the sentiment is expressed that cash gifts often stem from caring relatives who wish to ensure satisfaction, but the challenge remains in shifting the mindset of others regarding the appropriateness of cash as a gift.
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Why is giving cash on birthday considered a taboo?

People think that gifts have a sentimental value and on w/ the blah. Look, as sensitive as I am, I like cash the best so I can sum it up and buy what I actually want. But for some reason, if I tell all my friends to do that, I might be off the list of "normal people". I don't get it...btw, I don't want to know weather you think it is ok or not b/c I know you do. I have discussed it on yahoo answers. But the thing is, I want to know is that why isn't it considered appropriate to demand cash or simply give it. B/c gifts are normally considered better.
 
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I wasn't aware of that.
 
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People think that gifts have a sentimental value and on w/ the blah. Look, as sensitive as I am, I like cash the best so I can sum it up and buy what I actually want. But for some reason, if I tell all my friends to do that, I might be off the list of "normal people". I don't get it...btw, I don't want to know weather you think it is ok or not b/c I know you do. I have discussed it on yahoo answers. But the thing is, I want to know is that why isn't it considered appropriate to demand cash or simply give it. B/c gifts are normally considered better.

I am the same case, however the cash giving was started by caring, loving, etc. relatives, who wanted me to feel satisfied and to compensate for the hours of finding me presents. The difference is, that there's no one left to ask to give cash instead of presents. At least to try to convince someone to do that.
 
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