rpt said:
DevilsAvocado,
My understanding is that "time" is not real.
(Therefore unphysical - sorry about this comment)
Don’t be sorry, we are all more or less finding our way through the purple haze here. These things are not 'finally' settled.
(Caution: I’m only a layman. Everything I say MIGHT be wrong.)
I think I know what you are asking and why. This is my personal view on the "problem":
In our everyday human life we have a very strong perception that time 'flows',
forward. We are depending of a past, present and future, for our human brains to work properly. You can’t remember the future, and hopefully you do not make predictions about the past.
In this macroscopic world, that we spend our life in, physics has four-dimensional coordinate system to form a 4D manifold, representing
Spacetime, consisting of the three spatial dimensions (length, width, height) and the temporal dimension (time), giving 3+1 = 4. This is called the
Minkowski Space after the mathematician Hermann Minkowski.
In General Relativity, Spacetime is assumed to be SMOOTH and CONTINUOUS – not just in the mathematical sense.
There are several 'reasons' time has a direction forward in the macroscopic world, and maybe the strongest reason (scientifically) is the thermodynamic arrow of time, which could maybe simplest be described as – things are always getting worse

(more disordered). Or; if you see two pictures of an egg – one when the egg is whole and one when it’s broken into pieces on the floor – you know for sure which picture was taken first in time.
As you see time, length, width and height, are only DIMENSIONS in the macroscopic spacetime. And naturally – it’s impossible to measure or observe "1 Kilometer" in spacetime as an 'independent' object. What we do is to use the metric system to measure the spatial length between objects, e.g. the Sun and Earth, and we get that the distance is 150 million kilometer. If France didn’t have their way, we could have used any other human-made scale, and get that distance is 75 billion turtles (
and then you could have observed "1 turtle"! 
). The actual distance between the Sun and Earth would still be exactly the same in both cases though.
To make observations in the macroscopic world, we need objects and events, which cannot 'exist' without spacetime, and vice versa. No objects, no space. No space, no objects. No events, no time. No time, no events.
According to Relativity, space and time are 'flexible', and the speed of light is the only fixed constant. This means that at extreme gravity, like inside a Black hole, time stops = no events. Even light 'freezes' and can’t escape the Black hole.
Now to the microscopic quantum world.
First problem:
As given by the name, QM uses distinct quanta, discrete values, to describe microscopic world. E.g. the energy levels of electrons in atoms or molecules, is said to be quantized. And when an electron 'jumps' to a higher or lower energy level, it does this INSTANTANEOUSLY, not SMOOTH and CONTINUOUS. To apply spacetime to QM, many scientists believe that spacetime should be quantized at the very smallest scale (which is not the easiest task in the world as far as I know).
Anyhow, the current state is that microscopic QM and macroscopic Relativity is not 100% compatible at extreme scales and temperatures, like the Big Bang, and the calculations breakdown in endless infinities. To get full compatibility, we need a solution to quantum gravity, and that is definitely one of the toughest current problems in physics = instant NP + $$$$$$$ ...when solved.
Second problem:
If we want to observe the exact speed and position of a cannonball at different moments in time, we can do that fairly easy, without expecting the Nobel Prize in Physics for the achievement. If one were to repeat that with an object in the QM world – one would surely get Nobel Prize in Physics, since it’s considered impossible due to the Heisenberg uncertainty principle. We cannot do complete observations of objects in the QM world, and this is not an "apparatus problem", it’s the fundamental nature of the QM world.
Third problem:
QM is mathematical construction that works perfectly well. On that all agrees. Not everyone agrees on what this mathematical construction describes, there are different interpretations. Some say the QM world doesn’t exist – "Shut up and calculate!". And some say it does. I have absolutely no clue what’s true...
Fourth problem:
Historically, the founding fathers of QM removed space and time from any underlying reality in QM, when Werner Heisenberg in 1925 introduced matrix equations. The next 'blow' for Einstein came in 1926 when Max Born proposed that QM was to be understood as probabilities, without any causal explanation. No space, no time and no causality... This was too much for Einstein and made him "go haywire". Einstein he used the rest of his life trying to find "another solution", without success.
My guess is that most of the work that was made by the founding fathers in the 1920s, is still valid in today’s QM – No space, no time, no causality.
Fifth problem:
As far as I understand, if you
do try to measure time in the QM world, you will find out that it’s perfectly symmetric. There is NO difference between the past and future! If you 'inspect' two different 'pictures' of a "QM egg", it’s IMPOSSIBLE to tell which is before and after! (
You have to ask the experts, who knows what they are talking about
, for more info on this).
Hope this spread some light on QM and reality of time.
Watch this little movie to see what happens to a human that has only 7 to 30 sec "now":
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=<object width="480" height="385">
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This definitely changed my view on the human need of time...