sickle said:
1) if the object has zero displacement, all work (net and individual) are all zero
Yes, exactly.
sickle said:
2) if displacement is nonzero and velocity is constant: net work is zero because net force is zero (but individual work can be non zero e.g. applied, gravity)
Yes. (It's a little unusual to find gravity doing work in a situation when velocity is constant, though it's certainly possible. Friction is a more typical example of a force that does work when the net work is zero.)
sickle said:
3) if displacement is nonzero and acceleration is non-zero: net work is non zero
Almost. It is possible that you have a nonzero acceleration which is perpendicular to the velocity, and in that case, the
direction of the velocity is changing but its
magnitude stays constant. The net work done would be zero, because work is related to the change in speed (i.e. magnitude of velocity).
In any other case where there is a nonzero acceleration, the speed would be changing and the net work would be nonzero.
sickle said:
Thus, in the lifting objects vertically at constant velocity questions, net work is 0 right? (and the questions always asks for work you did or gravity did)
Right. Of course, asking what the net work is in such a case is a perfectly valid test question, just to see if you know what you're talking about. (The answer would be 0 of course)
sickle said:
Applying the same logic, carrying/pushing an object at constant velocity is also 0 net work but non zero individual work (by applied and friction) right?
Right. But it's possible that there really are no forces at all (e.g. an object flying through empty space), and in that case there is no individual work done either.
sickle said:
So what exactly is work? It is energy transferred in general or energy transferred to the object? (does the two above examples differ because the vertical example is creating gravitation potential while the horizontal is creating heat)?
The work done on a system is energy transferred to that system by mechanical means. And the work done
by a system is energy transferred from that system by mechanical means. Here "mechanical" means just a push or a pull - basically, a force. So you could think of work as energy that's transferred to the system through a force. It's defined that way to distinguish it from heat, which is energy transferred by thermal contact. That's the other way in which energy can be transferred to or from a system. If a system gains or loses heat, that doesn't change its overall motion at all.
Note that energy can leave one system as work and arrive in another system as heat. This is exactly what friction does: it takes mechanical energy from the moving object and transfers it to the surroundings in the form of heat. But it doesn't go the other way around: you can't turn the heat back into work. You can't get the object back to the speed it started at without adding additional energy into the system. (This is a consequence of the 2nd law of thermodynamics, in case you were curious)
In your gravitational example, on the other hand, you
can get all the energy back. If you change an object's height, its speed will change, but you can restore the object to its original speed by letting it return to its original height. You don't have to put any extra energy back into the system. That's probably the main difference between your two examples.