The discussion centers around the saying, "If you love something, let it go...if it comes back, it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was." Participants express skepticism about its meaning, questioning the implications of letting someone go and the potential for regret if they return after a long absence. Concerns are raised about the finite nature of life and the emotional toll of waiting for someone who may never return. The conversation emphasizes the importance of treating people with respect and understanding that true love does not equate to ownership. Many argue that the phrase is often misinterpreted, suggesting that letting go should not be a test of love but rather a means to release unhealthy attachments. Ultimately, the consensus leans towards the idea that moving on is essential, especially if the relationship is causing pain, and that one should not cling to the hope of a return.