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I asked "What does it mean to say that time has stopped?"
Ok, that clarifies things somewhat. The answer to your question as you stated it is that it can mean a variety of things: just saying "time has stopped" by itself doesn't pin down what you're talking about sufficiently to give a precise answer. For one thing, "time" by itself is not a precise term in relativity (special or general); you have to specify whose time (i.e., which observer's proper time), or what coordinate system's time. See below.
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Your response "classical GR predicts that they will be destroyed by infinite spacetime curvature at that point." I took this to me that you agreed that the notion that "time stops" somewhere in the vicinity of a black hole is an enigmatic term.
It is, but that isn't what I was saying when I said there is infinite spacetime curvature at the singularity. The singularity is *inside* the event horizon, not "somewhere in the vicinity of the black hole", by which you seem to mean "near the event horizon".
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I could have been more precise by saying that mass packing onto a black hole must first past through the Schwarzschild Radius, where presumably time stops.
No, it doesn't, and that is *not* what I was saying. See below.
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This is not the only possible case. I am still curious about the concept of time stopping and what that means.
Okay, let's try to disentangle some things by describing everything in terms of actual physical observables:
(1) Suppose you are hovering at some constant radius r far away from a black hole. You watch someone else free-fall past you, towards the hole, and watch as they send light signals back to you while they fall. If they send you light signals at constant intervals of time by their own clock, you will see the light signals arrive farther and farther apart by your clock; if we imagine them sending out a last light signal at the instant they cross the hole's horizon, that signal will never reach you at all.
(2) Suppose now that you are the free-faller; you fall past someone hovering far away from the hole, and send light signals back towards them. Everything around you seems normal: your clock ticks away just as it always has, as far as you can tell, and the intervals between each light signal you send out remain the same to you. In fact, from local observations in your vicinity you can't even tell when you cross the horizon; you have to calculate that if you want to know when, by your clock, you can stop sending light signals (because they will never reach the hoverer once you cross the horizon). However, in a finite time by your clock after you cross the horizon, you will see the tidal forces in your vicinity rise rapidly, ultimately diverging to infinity as you reach the singularity, still in a finite time by your clock.
Some people describe what I described in (1) above by saying that, from your viewpoint far away from the hole, "time slows down" for the person free-falling as they get close to the hole, and that when they reach the horizon, "time stops" for them. However, as you can see from (2), that description is, at the very least, misleading, since it doesn't convey the fact that the free-faller sees his own time flowing normally, and it doesn't cover at all what the free-faller experiences after he crosses the horizon. Another way of saying this is that the "time" coordinate that is natural to the hoverer, far away from the hole, only covers a portion of the spacetime; it assigns a "time" value of "plus infinity" to the black hole's horizon, which means it simply can't deal with the region of spacetime inside the horizon.
One could also describe what I described in (2) above by saying that "time stops" for the free-faller when he hits the singularity. However, a better way to describe that would be to say that "spacetime stops"; the singularity is an "edge" of the spacetime, and worldlines that hit it simply stop there. Physically, this isn't really reasonable (another sign of this is that, as I noted above, spacetime curvature diverges to infinity at the singularity), but standard general relativity can't give us any help in fixing that: we need some other theory, such as a quantum gravity theory, to take over and tell us what actually happens when standard GR tells us that "spacetime curvature diverges to infinity".