PeterDonis said:
Yes, but that's a separate question from the question under discussion. Nobody is disputing that there is a physical world that exists independently of our observations. All we are saying is that that physical world that exists independently of our observations does not include "absolute simultaneity" as one of its features.
Are you saying in this external physical world independent of observations, that truly physically simultaneous events somehow can not occur? If you believe in the existence of a physical world independent of our observations, where to me that means events actually do physically happen regardless of being or not being observed, why can't there be two exactly simultaneous events in this physical world, and who cares about if they were observed or not, in terms of whether or not they physically occurred simultaneously?
PeterDonis said:
What keeps the other observers from seeing the second flash?
Because of their type of absolute motion in the absolute world in which at least one flash occurred. Because of their motion they see the second flash apparently happen, if it did actually happen, at the same point of/in their dilated time.
PeterDonis said:
Why only one? You said at least one observer sees two flashes. Doesn't that mean at least two flashes must have occurred, even if other observers don't observe the second one? Didn't you say the physical world exists independently of our observations?
Because if at least one flash was seen, there was, absolutely, at least one physical flash in the external, physical world.
This fact, that there was at least one physical flash, is directly dependent on at least one relative observation seeing at least one flash. But the reverse is not true. If no observer sees a flash, this
does not guarantee that no physical flashes ever occurred. But just one relatively observed flash occurring
demands at least one physical flash. And if that's so, then where did it occur? It had to be at some absolute physical location in space at some just as absolute instant in time, if it was an actual physical event independent of observation.
There may have been more than one flash physically occur, and relative observations can't tell, and will never be able to resolve what is the "absolute truth of the external world." But even if just one flash was observed, there is one absolute thing which can be said: At least one flash physically happened. And the only type of "world" in which events do physically happen is an absolutely physical world, independent of observations, as Einstein stated. And then I think this physical world must be the same physical world for you, for me, for all physical matter existing at the same absolute instant in time that we call "the present."
To me, the entire concept of motion requires one to accept physical matter absolutely moves from some absolute location in space to some other absolute location in space over some absolute time interval. Motion to me, has to be in fundamental essence, truly absolutely physical. How an observer "sees" that motion progress through time is entirely a function of the observer's physical motion relative to the absolute space time with which this physical motion took place. Motion is physical. How we see it is relative.
PeterDonis said:
You are assuming a lot here, though you probably don't realize it. You are assuming that there is an "actual physical space" (as opposed to an actual physical *space time*), in which there are "absolute locations", and that there are "absolute instants" of time. All of these assumptions are false. I know they seem obvious to you, but they're still false. If you want to understand how relativity works, you have to drop these assumptions.
This sounds in contradiction to your previous statement that you believe in an external physical world independent of observations. One can take such a point of view and still completely understand all of relativity. Like I said, the Equivalence Principle demands one accept the existence of a physical, external would "out side of the elevator," as Einstein clearly thought, per the quote I gave. If it didn't, there would not be a way to define what is meant by "inside of the elevator."