DrGreg said:
If an apple falls to the Earth's surface and hits it at 5 m/s, then, relative to the apple, the ground is moving upwards at 5 m/s.
I agree, but nobody would ever say that while they were in free fall from that apple tree that the radius of the Earth was expanding.
It's the same with a black hole except that event horizons always "hit" apples (or anything else with non-zero mass) at the speed of light instead of 5 m/s.
If an object free falls from infinity into a black hole, it is just a matter of semantics as to whether the object hits the event horizon at c or the event horizon hits the object at c. But either way the radius of the horizon is not increasing. Most of the moving is being done by the free falling object.
But what if the object is a ship that has used all of its fuel to reduce its RV with the horizon to very close to zero just befor it reaches the horizon. The ship then free falls through the horizon. Arguments aside on what hits what. At what speed would the hitting occur?
Agreed that 'expanding' is not the the most precise statement. Passing at c is accurate.
It is not semantics as to what is moving at c, for the horizon. There is no local inertial frame where the the infaller is moving at c. Conversely, there is no local inertial frame, at all, where the horizon is moving at anything other than c. For the infaller, in their local inertial rest frame, they are at rest, not moving at all.
As for your rocket hovering in picometer above the horizon, then running out of fuel, the horizon still passes at
exactly c for the rocket.
Please note: in
every local inertial frame that includes the horizon, the horizon moves at c.