Birthday tomorrow and my parents insist on getting me something

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The discussion centers around feelings of disappointment regarding birthday gifts, particularly the preference for tangible presents over money. The original poster expresses a sense of sadness about receiving cash instead of a surprise gift, highlighting that the joy of receiving presents lies in the element of surprise and thoughtfulness. Others in the thread resonate with this sentiment, noting that money feels impersonal and lacks the emotional connection of a thoughtfully chosen gift. Suggestions are made to consider alternative ways to celebrate, such as using the money for a memorable experience or event, rather than just receiving cash. The conversation reflects a broader theme of valuing personal connections and meaningful gestures in gift-giving.
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it's my birthday tomorrow and my parents insist on getting me something. I really don't know what I want. I know I'll end up with money, so when I do think of something, I can buy it. I don't know why but it seems depressing... :confused: :frown:
 
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yomamma said:
it's my birthday tomorrow and my parents insist on getting me something. I really don't know what I want. I know I'll end up with money, so when I do think of something, I can buy it. I don't know why but it seems depressing... :confused: :frown:
I know it's not standard any more, but the thing that I always liked about presents was the surprise of finding out what it was. Getting money or an unwrapped gift just takes all the fun out of it.
 
Danger said:
I know it's not standard any more, but the thing that I always liked about presents was the surprise of finding out what it was. Getting money or an unwrapped gift just takes all the fun out of it.

I agree. It seems impersonal to just get money. My parents are the same way though, so I really do understand how depressing that can be.

Happy Birthday a bit early! I'll have to get the party smilies in here tomorrow to cheer you up!
 
Moonbear said:
Happy Birthday a bit early! I'll have to get the party smilies in here tomorrow to cheer you up!
:biggrin: that's always fun :biggrin:
 
Happy birthday, yomamma!
Have your parents spend the money on a party or an event (go out and have some family-fun) or make a donation in your name. Sounds like getting cash or something you're not really into right now will just be unfulfilling. Better to have a fun memory.
 
yomamma said:
it's my birthday tomorrow and my parents insist on getting me something. I really don't know what I want. I know I'll end up with money, so when I do think of something, I can buy it. I don't know why but it seems depressing... :confused: :frown:
Because the whole point of a gift is all about that they are thinking of you, and about you. Giving money means they don't know you very well.
 
I always preferred getting money. On my birthday, I loved getting the birthday cards with cash from my aunts. It was so thoughtful of them to remember me, plus I got to go out and get something I wanted, so it was like getting two gifts. :approve:
 
I always get a Pen for my birthday. Those things are precious.

I always give my Parents CDs for their birthday.
 

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