If you want to consider photons at the same time as waves then you have a problem. A photon is not just a small point. It is just an amount of energy that the wave is carrying - or, at least, with which the wave interacts with objects. In pretty well every respect, it is the wave nature that dominates - except when there is an interaction involved. Any wave will not interact with a 'system' instantaneously. It takes time for the receiver (atom, molecule or TV set) to respond - several, or even many cycles of the wave are involved (depending on the 'Q' of the system) so how can this relate to a model involving a 'shower' of little photons, each one with its own 'phase'? This is a mixed model and it is neither fish nor fowl but I understand that it is attractive at a stage in the learning of the way EM works, despite being not very fruitful (imho).