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While it is okay to show the polarity of the voltage across the capacitor as you have here, with a + and - it may lead to confusion. When you know the voltage difference, as we initially do here, it may be better to label one plate as +40v and the other as 0v.
Otherwise, I think you may be tempted to then proceed to wrongly label one plate as +40v and the other as -40v, and that would be wrong because it would describe a potential difference between the plates of 80 volts, not 40v.
A capacitor is only concerned with potential difference across its plates. That's all it sees, that's all it feels, that's all it knows. And that potential difference is wholly due to the charges on the plates. Q=C.V
Don't worry about doing any calculations until you have drawn and clearly labelled a couple of diagrams to show you understand the situation before and after. If you can't get the diagrams right, then you are wasting your time doing any calculations.
When the two capacitors are connected together, there will be a momentary spark. This indicates a brief flow of current through the connecting wires, and current denotes the movement of electrons through those wires.