I think that you may misunderstand the purpose that
@PeterDonis and I (and other mentors) have for requesting references. It is actually the opposite.
We request references for statements that we think are probably outside of the professional scientific literature, such as your statements about elastic vs inelastic spacetime curvature and the energy conditions. We do so because we recognize that we don't know everything in the literature and we could be unaware of something that is in fact in the literature.
It is not a weapon, it is an opportunity for the person receiving the request to either show the support that does exist in the literature or to rephrase or back-off from a claim that went too far. A weapon is not needed because we could have just deleted the original post immediately.
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Honoring a request for references is the standard way that we implement this. We do not require that people provide such references for every post, in advance, but instead when anyone requests a reference then the person should show how their comment is traceable to the professional scientific literature.
Not all the mentors agree with me on this, but I personally feel pretty strongly about this part of our site culture. I feel there are only two appropriate responses to a request for references:
1) provide a reference
2) retract or modify the claim
A request for references, in my opinion, should always be honored even if the requestee feels that the requestor is doing so disingenuously. In particular, I feel fairly strongly that it is not up to the requestee to judge if the statement is "common knowledge". If it is then it should be easy to provide a reference, so just do so.
If you feel that a person is abusing this and using the request as a "weapon", then please report them to the mentors and we will look and see. In this specific case, I agree with the request. I also don't know how your statement that "In informal terms, space-time can be deformed elastically if all energy conditions are respected, or plastically if the energy conditions are violated" is supported in the literature. The appropriate responses would have been either to provide a reference supporting that statement or retracting/rewording the statement.