Salbris said:
But when the other returns, they get confirmation that, yes indeed he was aging slower, no?
Not really. You see, in order to return, the other has to be in two different inertial frames. So you can't compare which one is running more slowly at a particular time... there isn't a common notion of the particular instants that are simultaneous at the two clocks through the entire trip.
You can certainly talk about the elapsed time of any clock.
Here's my favourite example again. Suppose there is a star 6 light years distant. Clock A remains inertial, 6 light years away from that star.
Clock B moves to the star at 60% light speed, and then turns around and comes back. They are able to turn around very quickly, so that they are pretty much moving away from home at one instant, and then turned around to come back in the next instant.
The whole trip of clock B takes 20 years, as measured by clock A. And, from the point of view of clock A, the moving clock is running 80% slow the whole time, and returns showing 16 years.
Now... what does clock A experience? From their perspective, clock B is the one that is moving, and there is a star moving towards them, at 60% light speed.
But the distance is less. The star is 4.8 light years away in this frame, and it takes 8 years to reach clock B. When the star reaches clock B, clock B can see clock A still receding in the distance. The light they see is coming from 3 light years away, and so left clock A 3 years previously... that is, 5 years after clock A started moving away. And clock A is running 80% slow, from clock B's perspective, so clock A is showing 4 years as seen in the light coming to clock B.
Clock B can infer, of course, that clock A will be "now" another 1.8 light years on its way, 4.8 light years altogether; and is presumable "now" showing 6.4 years.
But then, something odd happens. The star suddenly reverses and flies away again at 60% light speed. The distant clock A is suddenly approaching again, at 60% light speed. Worse... this all takes place at once! The light with which clock B sees clock A is now coming from 12 light years distant; and hence (since the clock A is approaching) it is inferred to be "now" 6.4 light years distant; though what clock B actually sees is the older light. And, the clock A is still indicating the 4 years with the light used to see it.
To come 12 light years at 60% light speed takes 20 years... although because clock A is running slow, there will be another 16 years elapsed, on top of the 4 seen in the light from that clock.
When clock A arrives and clock B, 8 years later, it shows 20 years elapsed, as expected.
In this case, there's something very odd that takes place half way through the trip. What happens is that clock B turns around... moves into a new inertial frame. In that frame, everything changes. In an instant, the same light that was coming from 3 light years away is suddenly coming from 12 light years away... and that is correct! The size of clock A in the sky will also suddenly reduce, because it is suddenly so much further away in this new perspective.
There's more discussion, with spacetime diagrams, in [post=2199430]msg #50[/post] of "Twin Paradox- a quick(ish) question"; and in other posts of the thread.
Cheers -- sylas