haruspex said:
No, it is not a simplification. It answers the question intended, the average force acting on the plane, as an entity distinct from its cargo. (Since when is ##\frac{\Delta p}{\Delta t}## not the definition of average force on an object, objects being of fixed mass?)
Yes I see that now. I still don't see why ##\dot mv+m\dot v=0## is invalid. Here is a derivation that sets ##\dot P(t)=0## aside. Let
##M_0## = mass of empty plane; ##m_0## = total mass of water that is scooped up.
Consider splitting ##m_0## into ##N## discrete pieces each of mass ##m_0/N##. Let
##v_k## = velocity of the airplane plus water after scoop of the ##k##th piece. We write the momentum conservation equation for each scoop
##M_0 v_0=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{1*m_0}{N}\right)v_1##
##\left(M_0 + \dfrac{1*m_0}{N}\right)v_1=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{2*m_0}{N}\right)v_2##
##\left(M_0 + \dfrac{2*m_0}{N}\right)v_2=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{3*m_0}{N}\right)v_3##
##\dots \dots \dots##
##\left((M_0 + \dfrac{(k-1)*m_0}{N}\right)v_{k-1}=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{k*m_0}{N}\right)v_k##
##\left(M_0 + \dfrac{k*m_0}{N}\right)v_k=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{(k+1)*m_0}{N}\right)v_{k+1}##
##\dots \dots \dots##
##\left(M_0 + \dfrac{(N-1)*m_0}{N}\right)v_{N-1}=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{N*m_0}{N}\right)v_N##
It is immediately obvious that if all the equations are added together, we end up with
##M_0v_0=(M_0+m_0)v_N## as expected. By adding up to each of the two intermediate equations betwen the dots, It should also be obvious that
##M_0v_0=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{k*m_0}{N}\right)v_k##
##M_0v_0=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{(k+1)*m_0}{N}\right)v_{k+1}=\left(M_0 + \dfrac{k*m_0}{N}\right)v_k##
Rearranging the last equation,
##M_0(v_{k+1}-v_k)+\dfrac{m_0}{N}[(k+1)v_{k+1}-k v_k]=0##
Now define ##(\Delta v)_k \equiv v_{k+1}-v_{k}## as the increment required to change the velocity from ##v_k## to ##v_{k+1}## and then substitute ##v_k=v_{k+1}-(\Delta v)_k ## into the last term on the LHS.
##M_0(v_{k+1}-v_k)+\dfrac{m_0}{N}[(k+1)v_{k+1}-k (v_{k+1}-(\Delta v)_k)]=0##
which becomes
$$\left[M_0+\dfrac{k*m_0}{N}\right](\Delta v)_k +\dfrac{m_0}{N}v_{k+1}=0$$
The mass of the plane plus the mass of the scooped water after the ##k##th scoop is, ##M_{k}=M_0+\dfrac{k*m_0}{N}##. The first term on the LHS is the momentum change over the ##(k+1)##th scoop of the plane plus the water inside it. The second term on the LHS side can be viewed as the momentum change over the ##(k+1)##th scoop of the water that is
not in the plane. Momentum conservation requires that the two changes add to zero. In other words the plane + water of mass ##M_k## has its speed reduced from ##v_k## to ##v_{k+1}## while the water that is scooped up has its speed increased from zero to ##v_k##. Now we can write the change in mass of plane plus water as ##(\Delta M)_k=m_0/N##. With this, the momentum conservation equation becomes
##M_k(\Delta v)_k +v_{k+1}(\Delta M)_k=0##.
As ##N \rightarrow \infty##, it becomes ##Mdv+vdM=0## which is implied in ##\dot Mv+M\dot v=0##.
If I did or assumed something incorrectly, please let me point it out because I cannot see what or where it is.
Happy New Year y'all.