Nobody is "abandoning" time dilation, you are just accidentally misapplying it. That is not exactly what Wikipedia has. Wikipedia has
Δt' = γ Δt
and Wikipedia also points out that the Δt is the time between two co-local events. This is an important distinction. Time dilation is part of the Lorentz transform, but not the whole thing. Let me show you how the time dilation formula is derived from the Lorentz transform:
Given the Lorentz transform of some arbitrary initial and final event
[tex]t'_i = \gamma (t_i - v x_i/c^2)[/tex]
[tex]t'_f = \gamma (t_i - v x_f/c^2)[/tex]
and given
[tex]\Delta t' = t'_f - t'_i[/tex]
[tex]\Delta t = t_f - t_i[/tex]
[tex]\Delta x = x_f - x_i[/tex]
We obtain
[tex]\Delta t' = \gamma (\Delta t - v \Delta x /c^2)[/tex]
This reduces to the time dilation formula only in the special case where [itex]\Delta x = 0[/itex] (the events are co-local in the unprimed frame), which is not the case here.
By the way, you can clearly see time dilation in the
https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=2464800&postcount=88". Note, as you follow the line x'=0 away from the origin you cross the line t=1 before you cross the line t'=1, so the primed clock is slow in the unprimed frame. Similarly, as you follow the line x=0 away from the origin you cross the line t'=1 before you cross the line t=1, so the unprimed clock is slow in the primed frame. Not only does the diagram correctly include time dilation, it let's you see how it is reciprocal for each frame and it let's you understand graphically that the time dilation formula only applies as written when [itex]\Delta x = 0[/itex].