This is a "conversation" reply, but I can't get upload to work in conversation, so I'm posting here.
Firstly you need to understand "interference". When two waves combine, the sum may be a larger wave, a smaller wave or even no wave at all.
In these picture we add two equal waves (shown red & blue) and show the result in green
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So when two waves are in phase (no phase difference), they produce a wave of double the amplitude.
When they are in antiphase (phase difference of half a wave), they cancel each other and produce zero resultant wave.
As the phase difference increases from 0 to 1/2 wave they support each other less and less and eventually cancel each other completely.
As the phase difference continues to increase from 1/2 to 3/4 wave, the cancellation becomes less complete and from 3/4 wave to 1 full wave they reinforce each other more and more until they combine to give double amplitude again.
When the phase difference is 1 whole wave, that is indistinguishable from zero phase difference. Then the whole cycle repeats again.
After any whole number of waves difference, the waves are in phase again. So only the fraction of a wave phase difference is important.
Why do waves combine out of phase? In the next diagram identical waves are sent out from A & B and we pick two points on the screen P & Q and show how the two waves can arrive out of phase. (I will talk as if the waves are light, but to make it more human sized, I am using lengths which are much too big - by about 10^7 )
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The distances AP and BP are equal at the centre of the screen, so the two waves arrive exactly in phase (top left diagram.) They combine to give a larger wave at P. P will be a bright point on the screen.
For the point Q away from the centre, AP is shorter than BP. So when the two waves arrive at Q, they may no longer be in phase.
The difference in distance is about 1.44m. But what is the difference in phase? That depends on the wavelength.
Say we used waves with 3m wavelength, then 1.44m is about 1.44/3 = 0.48 of a complete wavelength. So the two waves are out of phase by nearly half a wave (the bottom left diagram ) and almost cancel each other. The point Q on the screen will be dark.
But if the wavelength were instead 2m, then 1.44m is about 1.44/2 = 0.72 of a complete wave. So the waves are out of phase by nearly 3/4 of a wave (the bottom right diagram) and partially support each other. Now the point Q will be bright, though not as bright as the centre point P where the waves fully reinforce each other.
(BTW notice that saying, wave A is 3/4 wave ahead of wave B, is the same as saying, wave B is 1/4 wave behind wave A. There is a symmetry to phase differences. Which is why the two right hand diagrams are similar.)
If you change the wavelength again to 4m, the phase difference at Q becomes about 1.44/4 = 0.36 of a wave and the interference is partially destructive(*). So point Q is slightly dimmer than if it had been illuminated by only one of the waves.
(*) Interference is constructive from 0 to 0.25, destructive from 0.25 to 0.75, with complete cancellation at 0.5, and constructive from 0.75 to 1 (and on to 1.25, which of course is 0 to 0.25 of the next wave.) Some examples are shown here
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Notice the similarity between 40% and 60%. Similarly 70% will be like 30%, 80% like 20%, etc.