Chronos said:
While our solar system is not proven to be typical, neither is it proven atypical. We simply have not detected enough multi-planet systems to draw any such conclusion.
That's not true. With Kepler, the number of exoplanets are in the thousands, and that's enough data to show that the solar system is not typical. Here is one paper that goes through the selection effects, and it was written with 2006 data.
Observational biases in determining extrasolar planet eccentricities in single-planet systems
http://arxiv.org/abs/1008.4152v1
Based on 2006 data, you could argue that as many as one third of large planets have circular orbits, but that's enough to make the solar system uncommon.
With the new Kepler data, the solar system also looks pretty uncommon since most of the planets have non-circular orbits...
The Exoplanet Eccentricity Distribution from Kepler Planet Candidates
http://arxiv.org/abs/1203.1631
The argument is whether the solar system is atypical-uncommon or atypical-rare...
The fact that most planets have eccentric orbits was a big shock. The belief in 1990 was that since gas and dust go into circular orbits in a disk, that they would end up with nice circular planetary orbits. This wasn't what people found...
as far as See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stabili...e_Solar_System for a counter example.
Our solar system is pretty stable. However what people are finding is that if you just put some random planets into a solar system, it's hard to keep them from hitting each other, and doing some very complex things.
http://arxiv.org/abs/0903.4700
Planet-planet scattering leads to tightly packed planetary systems
http://arxiv.org/abs/0801.3226
Extrasolar Planet Interactions
This is all starting to form a nice picture. Solar systems go through a phase in which planets are in eccentric orbits and they hit each other. Most never leave that state, but we were lucky, and our solar system ended up in a stable system.
http://arxiv.org/abs/0706.1235
From mean-motion resonances to scattered planets: Producing the Solar System, eccentric exoplanets and Late Heavy Bombardments