A.T. said:
Do you agree with the cases I describe in post #32?
I don't think so. I think you are confusing space curvature with spacetime curvature. To briefly recap the general facts about space curvature vs. spacetime curvature:
Outside the gravitating body, spacetime curvature is negative in the radial direction (freely falling objects increase their radial separation with time) and positive in the tangential direction (freely falling objects decrease their tangential separation with time). (Note that this is Weyl curvature we're talking about; there is zero Ricci curvature, since we're in vacuum. That means a small sphere of freely falling particles will distort radially and tangentially, as above, but will not change its volume.)
Inside the gravitating body, spacetime curvature is positive everywhere. Ricci curvature is positive since there is positive stress-energy present; that means a small sphere of freely falling particles will decrease in volume. Weyl curvature is positive tangentially for the same reason it is outside the body: freely falling radial geodesics converge. But it is also positive radially because the gradient of g_{rr} is reversed; freely falling particles that are radially separated will converge, not diverge, because the "acceleration due to gravity" gets smaller as they fall, not larger.
However, neither of the above tells us about *space* curvature, which is what your triangle scenarios refer to. To talk about space curvature, we have to first decide how we will slice up the spacetime into space and time. The most obvious way to do that is to use the slicing that matches up with the static nature of the spacetime; i.e., we use slices of constant time according to static observers, who stay at the same radius forever. This is the slicing that produces the Flamm paraboloid that you gave a picture of.
If we use that slicing, then space curvature is *positive* everywhere; a triangle's angles sum to greater than \pi, and the circumference of a circle is less than 2 \pi times its proper radius. This may seem confusing since the paraboloid does appear to "change the direction it curves" at the body's surface. But that only changes the *gradient* of g_{rr}; it doesn't change the curvature, which is, as I noted before, the *second* derivative of the metric, not the first.
Draw some triangles on the paraboloid; you will see that regardless of whether you are inside or outside the body's surface, the triangles will work like triangles drawn on a spherical surface. A negatively curved surface would be shaped like a saddle, bending one way in one direction and the other way in a perpendicular direction at a single point. The paraboloid doesn't do that.
(Actually, a triangle that straddles the body's surface *may* behave differently, since it would straddle the change in gradient of g_{rr}. I have been unable to find an explicit computation of the spatial curvature of a constant-time slice in Schwarzschild coordinates, and I haven't done the full computation myself.)