I have a deep abiding mistrust of "intuitive reasons" for things. Because 99 percent of the time they are total BS, and yet they acquire a life of their own and get repeated over and over again, just because they are so appealing.
However, in the present case...
As was pointed out in the thread you cited, one way of writing the effective potential is
V
eff = - GMm/r + (L
2/2mr
2)(1 - 2GM/c
2r)
The terms in V
eff have an easy interpretation - the first is the Newtonian potential and the second is the centrifugal barrier. And we see that in GR the centrifugal barrier is
weakened by a factor 1 - 2GM/c2r. This, right here, is what causes the frequency of small radial oscillations to be less.
So now if you trace back in the derivation and ask
why the centrifugal barrier is weakened, it's ultimately because the dr
2 term in the Schwarzschild metric has a factor (1 - 2GM/c
2r)
-1 in front of it, while the dφ
2 term does not. In other words, radial distances are stretched relative to angular distances by this factor, and so again this has the effect of making radial oscillations slower than the angular ones.
Well now, all you have to do is think of an intuitive reason why the dr
2 term in the Schwarzschild metric has a factor (1 - 2GM/c
2r)
-1 in front of it while the dφ
2 term does not!
