OK, forgive me if I'm wrong, but it looks to me like you're trying to run before you can walk. You're interested in all the funky stuff like entanglement (and quite rightly so, because it is fascinating) but it would seem that you don't have the basic framework in place on which to hang these funky ideas.
In classical physics we describe things in terms of concepts like position, momentum, field strength, etc and each of these ideas has some intuitive appeal. If an apple falls on my head I get an immediately intuitive feel for where it is and what its momentum is
So the notion of 'state' - the state of an object - is to some extent an intuitive thing classically. We write down a list of properties and call that a state because it contains all the things we need to describe the object. Then the laws of physics tell us how that state will change. So if we apply a force to something we'll change its state of motion (i.e. its state) and that change and its subsequent motion can be figured out by solving those laws of motion.
In quantum mechanics we kind of lose this immediately intuitive feel for what is being described. It's not that we can't build up an intuition about what happens or how things evolve, but developing that intuition requires a bit of re-wiring of our mental pictures. A large part of this failure of our 'classical' intuition is because in QM we have to describe the 'state' of an object in a rather abstract way - as a vector in a complex Hilbert space (there's a bit more to it than that but that's a good enough place to start).
You'll see on here that there is still lots of heated debate about what this QM state actually means. Is it describing some objective thing or is it a mathematical device that just allows us to predict the right things? Right now we can't really say one way or another - neither of these ways of viewing the quantum state is wholly satisfactory to everybody.
So the first thing you need to do, if you want to understand more advanced things like entanglement, is to get a good feel for the basic mathematical machinery of QM. You can go quite a long way with just a few ideas from complex numbers and linear algebra and it doesn't need to involve really difficult maths.
When a state in QM is written as |a> for example, this is just notation for one of these vectors - it's a very nice notation invented by Dirac. I find it amazingly useful. But essentially when you see it think 'vector' to begin with. So like any vector it 'lives' in a vector space and it has certain properties. Adding any 2 vectors gives us another vector - or put it another way we can 'decompose' or 'expand' any given vector into a sum of other vectors. This decomposition or expansion is not unique and for a given vector there will generally be more than one way to expand it (and often there are an infinite number of different ways).
So if we walk from A to B we can label our journey as AB, but suppose we walk from A to B via C (all in straight lines), then we can see that AB is 'made up' of the journey AC followed by CB. This is nothing more than the principle of superposition so that the vector AB is equal to the sum of the vectors AC and CB. On another day we might decide to go via D so that our journey is AD plus DB. In all these cases we go from A to B - but this single journey can be 'expanded' in lots of different ways.
In principle this is also what we have in QM. When we write a state as |s> = |r> + |t> then it means just the same thing. In fact we could go daft and use the Dirac notation to describe our walking journey. So the vector AB we could write as |s>, the vector |r> would be AC and the vector |t> would be CB - and then we have just used a Dirac notation applied to real vectors to describe AB = AC + CB.
Honestly, apart from some more technical details, this is really all that superposition in QM is. Because these quantum states are vectors - they have all the usual vector properties. So mathematically at least, if you know linear algebra, you'll understand much more about the basic maths behind some things in QM.
Where things get more tricky is in the meaning. It's easy to visualize the journey through real space described by AB - you could even do it, that is walk from A to B in a straight line. The vectors in QM don't live in this real space and so it's a bit more difficult to describe them in such simple terms. They are, nevertheless, simply vectors, albeit in a complex Hilbert space.
When we write |0,1> in the above discussion, for example, this is just another vector, but it's a single vector describing 2 things - in this case 2 qubits. Just like 'normal' vectors in 'real' 3D space we can form superpositions so that |0,1> + |1,0> is another perfectly good vector.
I may have pitched all that way too low - and I apologize if I have been inadvertently patronizing. If you need a bit more technical flesh on the bones then Susskind's stuff (either his lectures on youtube, or his book 'the theoretical minimum') goes into more detail and are a truly excellent place to begin.