Finding Love at 27: Personal Struggles and Seeking Help

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The discussion centers around feelings of loneliness and the struggle to connect with others, particularly in the context of dating. The original poster expresses frustration over not being liked and feeling overly official or distant due to a perceived ego. Responses encourage a shift in perspective, emphasizing the importance of recognizing personal strengths and being open to others. Participants suggest that rather than focusing on shortcomings, one should engage with empathy and listen to others. There's a reminder that at 27, life is far from over, and taking action to connect with people is crucial. Some share personal experiences with depression, offering support and encouragement to reach out for help or to engage in conversations that can foster connections. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness, vulnerability, and proactive social engagement.
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I'd like to complain that nobody likes me.
I'm to official when I face every body.
I simply have to fat ego.
I, therefore, don't let them near me.
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When will some girl start to like me for change!
I'm 27 now. My live is half gone.
I still have no girl friend.
Ou...Ou...Ouch!
 
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awww don't feel so downtrodden. I am sure people do like you. If you go on naming your downfalls then you are going to miss that there are (most probably) lots of good things about you. You just have to exploit them and use them to your advantage. Earlier this year i was kinda in a really depressed state (thought about taking medication to help me) because nothing seemed to go right for me. Things are still really sucky but i just don't let them get to me.

I dunno, just try open up to people, have some empathy. I don't think u can have that bigger ego if you can admit that you are upset and that you have problems. Just listen to people before judging em i suppose.

27 and your life is half gone?? i doubt its half gone...1/3 maybe but you just got to lend the sympathetic ear. Bring yourself down to everyone elses level..

Help me out here guys!
 
Come on deda, go for that girl!
You are still young, if you don't act now, you will lament it when you are older
Remember that you only live once. And, after all, you don't have nothing to lose if you try
 
Aw deda! Want to talk to me via PMs? I have helped many people to sort out their thoughts. If you want to "consult" me, send me a PM. This quite personal, but I experienced a minor depression two years ago(I ended up visiting a psychiatric institution) and I have been outburnt twice. I am just getting out of the second time now and I do believe that my experience is vaulable. It has helped a lot of other people I have been corresponding with. That is an offer to everyone else as well.
 
Every day we learn new things. Sometimes it's just a small fact or realization. No matter how trivial or random, let's start recording our daily lessons. Please start off with "Today I learned". Keep commentary to a minimum and just LIKE posts. I'll start! Today I learned that you clean up a white hat by spraying some cleaner with bleach on it (rinse before putting it back on your head!)

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