Thanks for those comments. I agree with the general reasoning behind them, but since words can be deceiving I'll try to stick closer to the actual math used in the weak-field approximation used in the detection of GWs.The following paragraph is problematic when confronting it to the actual math even if it looks quite reasonable within the explanations often found trying to facilitate understanding:
PeterDonis said:
The "laser local inertial frame" does not and cannot cover the entire LIGO device. If it did, the device would not be able to measure any GWs, because spacetime curvature would be negligible over the entire device. So your implicit reasoning here can't be right, because you are implicitly assuming that the speed of light can be assumed to be c over the length of each of LIGO's arms. It can't.
You are assuming here the "ripples in spacetime" informal language that Pervect referred to in #7,(synchronous) coordinates where c varies over the arm's length imply shrinking/stretching rulers that would give the impression of a null detection, that's why the mathematical treatment usually employed to describe GWs in the weak-field approximation doesn't use coordinates where the coordinate speed of light changes, it uses harmonic coordinates instead. The gauge used models the spacetime curvature perturbation only affecting two spacelike coordinates(TT gauge) in the amplitude tensor of the plane wave solutions. The perturbative term ##h_{\mu\nu}## expressed in harmonic(quasi-minkowskian) coordinates under the usual weak-field viewpoint where ##h_{\mu\nu}## is simply a symmetric tensor field (under global Lorentz transformations) defined on a flat Minkowski background spacetime.
The spacetime cuvature is not negligible here but is clearly modeled independently of time in the linearized gravity approximation. And this demands a constant c over the length of each LIGO's arm in oder to compute a phase shift between the arms due to a difference in spacelike distances.
See also the informal treatment linked by LIGO "If light waves are stretched by gravitational waves, how can we use light as a ruler to detect gravitational waves?" by Saulson. This is the relevant paragraph with my bold:
["We are left with the question, ‘‘Are gravitational waves observable by examining the light in an interferometer?’’ It might seem that the recognition that the wave stretches with the space has in fact shown that light is unsuitable to reveal the length changes. We often say, after all, that we are usinglight as a ruler to measure the distortions of space. What good is a ruler that stretches to the same extent that space stretches?
To see why light still works perfectly well for our purpose, recall first that there is no direct sense in which we observe the wavelength of the light in the arms. Our observations are instead of the phase of the light, that is, of the arrival times of wave crests.
What happens when we observe the phase of the light wave in the x arm of our interferometer? Imagine that just before t=tau, one light wave crest had returned precisely to the beam splitter. By the same argument as we used above, that wave crest has no choice other than to remain at the beam splitter when the gravitational wave arrives. So the gravitational wave causes no phase shift at the beam splitter immediately after its arrival.
The key is the word ‘‘immediately.’’ All of the other wave crests suddenly at t=tau become farther from the beam splitter than they were before.
Gravitational wave or no, light travels through the arm at the speed of light, c.
The physically observable meaning of the stretching of the space is that the light in it has to cover extra distance, and so will arrive late"]
In this view the question that comes to mind is what happens to the equation ##\lambda=c\nu^{-1}## for the light inside the arm while the GW passes? I can see now that my frequency cancelling out the wavelength heuristic actually leads to a variable c over the length of the arm just like you assume so it is not in accord to the math above. In the end the Saulson paper seems to suggest we should simply ignore the wavelength/frequency variation of the laser while the GW passes since it doesn't enter the linearized gravity model that only depends on spacelike separation and constant c.
I can't say I'm satisfied with that.