spmodoc said:
Don't think me silly, but the first question is, where do excess neutrons go? If I do a fission reaction and get protons they are just ionized hydrogen atoms, a free electron is just a negative charge to find a free proton somewhere. But since a neutron can't get back in a nucleus, where does it go? The only place I can think of would be the nearest gravity well. Is their a tiny ball of neutrons at the Earth's core?
Neutrons do in fact readily enter other nuclei increasing the mass number by 1 without changing the charge, Z. Most often, an absorbed neutron will produce a radionuclide which will subsequently decay, mostly likely by beta-decay, or alpha-decay if the original nucleus is heavy enough. For certain, nuclei, e.g. U-233, U-235 and Pu-239, 241, fission would likely occur.
Free protons eventually find an electron. As far as we know, there is net charge neutrality locally around the earth, so + ions or free nuclei will eventually find electrons and free electrons will evenually recombine with positive ions.
As far was we know, there is no ball of neutrons at the center of the earth, which is thought to be liquid Fe. Neutrons would be absorbed by nearby nuclei, and would be absorbed very near their origin, if they did not decay.
Neutron stars are entirely different forms of matter than we find on earth, or even in the sun. The matter is so dense that it's thought to be one big mass of nucleons rather than atoms. Nucleons interact with one another. If a neutron decays, it would do so into a proton, electron and antineutrino, but with mass so dense, a proton will interact with an electron again forming a neutron and neutrino. Gravity is only one force within a star, and it is significant because of the huge mass (and density) involved.
The second is does antimatter have mass? If it does and then if you annihilate it do you get energy equal to the total mass or just the matter's mass?
The concept of antimatter has been adequately explained. Positrons will annihilate with electrons to produce two gamma rays. Anti-baryons will annhilate with corresponding baryons in pi-meson shows, and the mass-energy is converted to mass and kinetic energy of smaller particles.