you should spend an hour digesting Lavoisier's Preface to his Introduction to Chemistry..
It is a good introduction to scientific thinking.
It's at
https://web.lemoyne.edu/giunta/lavpref.html
Toward the end he quotes an earlier philosopher
""Instead of applying observation to the things we wished to know, we have chosen rather to imagine them. Advancing from one ill founded supposition to another, we have at last bewildered ourselves amidst a multitude of errors. These errors becoming prejudices, are, of course, adopted as principles, and we thus bewilder ourselves more and more. The method, too, by which we conduct our reasonings is as absurd; we abuse words which we do not understand, and call this the art of reasoning. When matters have been brought this length, when errors have been thus accumulated, there is but one remedy by which order can be restored to the faculty of thinking; this is, to forget all that we have learned, to trace back our ideas to their source, to follow the train in which they rise, and, as my Lord Bacon says, to frame the human understanding anew."
so stop trying to force electricity to fit your wild imaginings.
learn the definitions of
Joule
Coulomb
Volt
Ampere
then realize that the water analogy is mediocre one.
Think of current flow analogous to stuffing peas into a straw like you did as a kid to make a pea shooter.
When the straw is full,
For every pea you push into one end, a pea comes out the other end.
But it's not the same pea.
Further, If you block the far end you cannot push any more peas in the near end.
Wire is the same way.
You push a Coulomb in one end and a Coulomb comes out the other.
But it's not the same Coulomb.
The Coulombs push one another along just like peas in a straw. Their actual progress along the straw is a literal snail's pace.
But the 'push' between adjacent Coulombs propagates at a goodly fraction of
c.
So the time between a Coulomb entering one end and an identical one popping out the far end is on the order of a nanosecond per foot
(That's why people mistakenly think electrons "zoom down the wire")...
... anyhow...
If you block the load end you can't push any more Coulombs in from the breaker end. .
The degree to which the load end is blocked determines how many Coulombs/Sec per Volt will flow.
Coulombs/sec is Amps ( did you do your homework above?)
Amps per volt is a measure of ease with which current flows into a load and is called "Admittance"
its inverse, the ratio Volts/Amps,
is resistance Ohms.
Ohms is a measure of blockage, ie
resistance to current flow hence its name.
Admittance the inverse of resistance has units mho which is ohms spelled backward,
Do your homework and the mysteries will disappear.