I second Griffiths. I have many EM books, none of the engineering EM book have good explanation on the basic electromagnetics because a lot of the material thing is not exactly the most important for EE. EE electromagnetics books more emphasis on Transmission lines, EM wave, Smith Chart that is so so important for EE, but they all kind of lax on the physics side. You really need two books to understand EM...Griffiths "Introduction to Electrodynamics" and Chengs " Field and Wave Electromagnetics". Those are the best two I've seen.
Regarding to familiar and use the Maxwell's equation, the only way I found is to do the exercises on different books, study one book after another, each give you different insight. It takes a while to really get the feel of the subject.
As for PDE, I did stop and spent 10 months studying PDE. There is really no easy way, but for undergrad, I don't think you need too much other than in Chapter 4 or chapter 5 of either book where it deal with boundary wall. But to really understand and go beyond rectangular coordinates, you have to get into Bessel's Function for cylindrical coordinates and Lagendre Function for spherical coordinates. A lot of the numerical analysis type of math. I feel it really give me much more insight and appreciation of EM after studying PDE.
If you work through the exercise of Griffiths particular the chapter 10 onward, it is like an advanced course of vector calculus. You need to have good understanding on the meaning of divergence and curl...not the math part, but "see" the divergence and curl.
IT takes time, took me over two years ( over three years counting the 10 months I dropped everything and studying PDE in between) to actually feel comfortable in the two books mentioned. I don't even dare to say I understand as there are a lot more ahead of these...this is only undergrad. But for EE, I think that's enough unless you want to specialize in EM in grad school.
There are only 6 equations, 4 maxwell's and one continuity and one Lorentz force, but it is going to take a while to really "feel" it. Keep going over and over, one day you will feel like a light bulb turn on inside you.