To find the electrostatic interaction force between two neutral parallel plates with an insulating plate in between, one can treat the setup as a capacitor. The force can be derived from the stored energy of the capacitor, expressed as F = -1/2 * Q^2 / (ε * S), indicating an attractive force. An alternative method involves calculating the electric field from one plate at the position of the other, using E = σ / (2ε), where σ is the surface charge density. The force can then be calculated using F = QE, where Q is the total charge of the plate. Both methods yield the same force expression, though signs may vary based on the chosen reference direction.