I think this formulation: "the fact that your choice of measurement selects the sample space is what leads to the fact that the measurement "creates" in some sense the value"
is what leads to the misunderstandings documented by @DrChinese 's point of view. Taking the minimal statistical interpretation seriously, you should rather say: "the choice of measurements selects the ensembles you consider, given an ensemble defined by the preparation of the state".
In this way you get rid of the misunderstanding as if the local measurement at A must lead to an instantaneous influence on the measured entities at B. It is in accordance with the fact that the temporal order of the measurements does not play any role (if the measurement events are space-like separated there's even no temporal order at all!), because you don't need the argument of the collapse proponent that the measurement at A causally affects the measurement at B. Both A and B can choose what they measure, and all you know from the state preparation are the probabilities for the outcomes of measurements at A and B. With sufficiently detailed measurement protocols and clever arrangements as described by the delayed-choice setups of Bell tests (and these are realized in various realizations of "quantum-erasure setups" in the real-world lab nowadays!) allow you to choose different subensembles based on the meausrements from the measurement protocol.
For me the only consistent interpretation, i.e., obeying both the locality/microcausality principle of the usual QFT formalism and the possibility of stronger-than-classically-possible long-ranged correlations described through entanglement, is the minimal statistical interpretation, based on the assumption that the random nature of the outcome of measurements (no matter whether you describe them in idealized (gedanken) setups as complete measurements or more realistically, taking into account the non-ideality of real-world measurement devices in terms of the POVM formalism) is inherent in nature and not due to incomplete knowledge of the state as in classical statistical physics.
The important lesson to be learned from all these discussions is that, when in doubt on metaphysical concepts, which are necessarily unsharp compared to the scientific content of a theory, you have to go back to the successful formalism and find a metaphysical interpretation that is consistent with it, i.e., the empirically well-established facts about the behavior of nature as analyzed for over 100 years since the first discovery of quantum aspects of nature in 1900. The great success of modern natural science methodology is due to the decoupling of science from philosophy, and as far as I can see, philosophy can only a posteriori build a metaphysical world view after the scientific issues are clear, and then it might be of some value also for the understanding of the implications of the scientific discoveries for a more general worldview.