According to SR time "flows" at different rates according to the speed of the object.
So time is relative to the speed, and speed is also relative to the observer.
If I start to move at certain speed and also take a role of the observer (of myself) than for me time will be passing at normal rate, same as I would be stationary.
If we now change to the perspective of the external observer who is slower than me or stationary, he would see that I'm living in "slow motion" in other words in time that runs slower.
I might suspect from the above, that there is a connection between the speed at which spacetime of the universe expands and perception of the rate at which time flows.
According to GR, local value of gravity has the same effect on time as speed in SR.
So higher gravity means slower time flow.
Let's say for now we are in point A in spacetime (A' in space) and I have two synchronized clocks.
I take one of them for a near light speed spin around the galaxy

or into a high gravity location for a certain period of time.
Then I come back to compare readings on these clocks at point B in spacetime (same A' in space). What I see is that the clock I took is delayed to the clock I left.
I started this experiment at point A and ended in point B of my spacetime, what is different between these clocks is the spacetime distance between points A-B they traveled.
So how come the distance in spacetime from point A to B be different?
The time must've been flowing at different rates, and if the rates are different shouldn't there be a rate at which normally time flows when observer is stationary?