Hal King said:
But what is still bothering me is that the 'Standard Model' and General Relativity are actually composed of separate 'pieces' or parts -- meaning that when its said that GR or SM agrees with the results that this is an exaggeration -- it only agrees with certain parts. Often they are never identified.
What parts are not in agreement with the data? There are indeed some relatively minor, but none the less important problems, such as the density profiles of dark matter haloes in N-body simulations compared to galaxies, or the abundance of dwarf galaxies, but there is a great deal of uncertainty in the modelling in those cases. For things where we can be more confident about our predictions, the data is well described by LCDM. Note that 'standard model' is a bit strong, usually LCDM is known as 'the concordance model' to highlight the fact that the model is concordant with independant data sets, but rests on physics not well understood at the present time. In other words it is a concordant model, but not a true physical theory as such. This is in contrast to the standard model of particle physics, which is a different set of ideas (that none the less is obviously connected to cosmology at some level).
Hal King said:
I have a MAJOR problem with ANY theory that is proposed as a 'theory of everything' -- or anything close to that.
Then you will be happy to know that no current theory is described as such, certainly not the current best guess cosmology model. I think you are mixing up theories, and even hypothetical future theories, with each other. The term 'theory of everything' applies to the search for a theory that consistantly describes all the fundamental forces and particles in the Universe. At present the standard model of particles physics is incomplete, because it does not incorporate gravity in a completely consitant way. But this shouldn't be confused with the LCDM model of cosmology. Of course if we were to come up with a theory of everything it should be consitent with (and probably explain in more detail) the LCDM model.
Hal King said:
So if you have a new model, where do you go to find out what kind of predictions and in what format is needed for a comparison? i.e. how is a check done against the data?
You need to work out what angular power spectrum your theory predicts, and compared that against the WMAP (and other CMB probes) data. Depending on the nature of the theory existing codes for doing this (CMBFAST, CAMB, CMBeasy are probably the three most widely used) could be converted, but depending on the model and how different it is a tool for this might need to be build from scratch. Note that the WMAP data (as well as plenty of other data) is publicly available.
In addition you would also need to make predictions about the luminosity distance, in order to compare to supernovae type 1a data as well as the angular diameter distance, in order to compare with Baryon Accoustic Oscillation data from galaxy redshift surveys. You would also need to work out the linear perturbation theory to describe the growth of fluctuations in the matter density field in order to compare with results from cluster abundance and galaxy redshift surveys. There's probably some other points I've missed, but that would be a good start.
If a new theory managed to explain all of that data consistantly, and had some theoretical advantage of LCDM, like removing the need for dark energy/matter then that would be very interesting. But without doing that work to show that consistancy any talk of alternatives in just barking at the moon. Note that there are plenty of theories that don't have one or both of dark energy and dark matter that are being worked on in the way I've described. Some are promosing, but none have yet managed to do a better job than LCDM. That could change at any point.