The conclusion you should be drawing instead is that "simultaneous", when applied to spatially separated events, is not as useful a concept as your intuition is tempting you to believe. All "simultaneous" means is that the two events have the same t coordinate in whatever coordinate system we're using; and we're free to use whatever coordinate system we use. Interestingly though, no matter what coordinate system we use, we will find that for any event the future light cone region, the past light light cone region, and the neither light cone region comes out the same. That makes the light cones a much more useful concept than "happened at the same time".
If I find events A and B to be simultaneous (that is, I subtract the light travel time from the time when I see them and find that they both happened at the same time), and you moving relative to me find that events B and C are simultaneous... It does not not follow that either of us will find events A and C simultaneous. There will be some third observer who does find A and C to be simultaneous - but that observer will find neither A and B nor B and C to be simultaneous.
So let us consider a whole bunch of observers. They all have watches that tick once every time their heart beats, and because they're all preternaturally calm and in astoundingly good aerobic health, their heart rates, metabolic processes, brain function, and perception of time are all unaffected by the excitement of space flight. We start them together at the same place at the same time, they set them all their watches to zero, and send them off in various directions at various relativistic speeds. Each one experiences the present ("My heart beat a moment ago, it's doing another beat right now, and because I like living I hope it will keep it up and beat again in a moment") just as if they were at rest and had never seen a spacetime diagram.
So now one of these observers may find that his watch read five ticks at the same time that your watch read three ticks; and another of these observers may find that his watch read five ticks at at the same time that your watch read four ticks - but how does this series of claims amount to saying you were experiencing your three-tick and four-tick moment at the same time? Their five-tick moments are not happening at the same time according to any of the three of you.