Well, let's start with your (Will's) last claim... in SI units: [P] = N/m
2 = kg/(ms
2). And that's the same as on the righthand side, so I'm the one here with

egg on his face.
Now the other issue: ##A = \pi (r+dr)^2##
I can agree with ##A(r) = \pi r^2## and with ##A(r + dr) = \pi (r+dr)^2##
The way to make a differential out of this is via ##dA = A(r) - A(r + dr) = \pi r^2 - \pi (r+dr)^2 = 2\pi r \, dr + \pi (dr)^2 = 2\pi r \, dr##
(or with ##{dA\over dr} = 2\pi r##)
Forgive me my physicists way of dealing with differentials (we write (dr)2 = 0 when we mean that in the limit for ##dr\rightarrow 0## this term disappears next to the term with dr).
(seen the picture in the mean time. My intuition says the final answer/experimental result is probably zero or negative

. But let's not be over-hasty.)
OK, now the assembly phase: You want F and realize it depends on r only since P depends on r only. So you write $$
F = \int_0^R dF(r) \ \ = \ \ \int_0^R {dF\over dr} dr \ \ = \ \ \int_0^R {dPA(r)\over dr} dr \ \ = \\ \qquad \ \ \int_0^R {d \over dr} \left ( {\rho \omega^2 r^2 \over 2} 2\pi r^2 \right ) dr
= \ \ \rho\pi \omega^2\, \int_0^R {d \over dr} \left ( r^4 \right ) dr $$
and that's not a difficult integral anymore.
Bringing in the pressure from gravity is a detail/complication that may be unnecessary for reasonable ##\omega##.(Dear Nidum: no offence intended, really. Why don't you think along with us, because my intuition is worrying me)Reason I'm wavering: this would make the pressure on the axis of rotation zero. In fact, since we are dealing with an incompressible liquid, I can well imagine that the pressure on the side walls -- that realistically have some elasticity -- will in fact make the liquid pull in the end plugs with a huge force (depending on ##\omega##, the elasticity and the length/radius ratio).
Unless you have a little hole on the axis to neutralize that effect !
Interesting project !
But you posted with what is basically a math problem, so let's first make sure that is all clear and understood. Will ?--