I think what is troubling you is that you have been told that pressure is a force per unit area, but a force is a vector, so has a direction. If you put an infinitely thin plate inside a fluid, where is the force per unit area? Well, it is on both the top and bottom of that plate, but it cancels, so you wonder, what's the point?
The point is, now imagine the plate is not infinitely thin, it has an interior that is empty, it's thin flat metal box. Now you have a force per unit area on the top, pointing down, and a force per unit area on the bottom, pushing up. That's what pressure does-- it tries to crush empty boxes you put in there! Those two forces per unit area are both P, but you'd never add them to get 2P, because for the net force on the box, they add up to zero (no net force on the box), but on each surface of the box, there is a big force, and it better be a strong box or it will crush.
Also, if the pressure changes with height, due to gravity, then the pressure at the top of a box with a finite width is a little less then the pressure at the bottom. That results in a force that does not cancel out, but only because the box has a nonzero width-- the force is proportional to the width of the box. That is called the buoyancy force, and it is not a pressure, it is a force-- but it's there because the pressure changes, not only because there is pressure, and that force goes to zero as the width of the box goes to zero. Pascal's theorem is the recognition that there is a big difference between the pressure, and the change in pressure. If you put more water above the box we are talking about, the pressure will increase, and the box better be even stronger to avoid crushing, but the buoyancy force is not changed, because that deals not in the pressure but in the change in pressure, and Pascal's theorem says the changes in pressure won't be different if you just crank up the pressure by some external action you do.