Hi anita1984,
If you've got the manufacturer name and the part number, how about you give them a shout on their contact form at http://www.nidec.com/form.html?
In my experience with stepper motors, it's not always obvious which lead is which when looking directly at impedance on the leads. Perhaps there is a clever trick, like using an impedance meter to measure the inductance across lines, and find the common that way. But there's no way to tell which lead is which phase unless you do some trial and error.
I once had an unknown stepper motor, where the common was obvious, but each phase was not. I used a quadrature stepper motor driver, and played with the order of the leads until the motor stopped having a fit. Probably not the most elegant solution, but it did the job in the end!