Even if you use a ground clock, so all of your measurements really did come from one frame, you'd still come to the conclusion everyone keeps telling you: according to the ground measurements, the closing speed between the two ships was 1.5c. If you come to the incorrect conclusion that someone must have moved at 1.5c from that, then it's your own fault for not having enough data and for not thinking, "Hm, I guess both moved at .75c."
Relativity only says that you won't see someone coming at you at >c. That's it. It doesn't say that you can't take measurements in the ground frame, move toward each other, and then conclude that the closing speed was >c. If all the measurements are from the ground frame, then we get a result according to the ground frame. This result isn't anything special.