Char. Limit said:
Note: She still puts down "White/Caucasian" on applications.
Weird; we don't have spaces for such a thing on any application that I've ever seen, with the possible exception of the long-form census.
It never ceases to astound me, when watching Yankee television shows, that race still appears as an area of conflict. (Mind you, I watch fiction such as the Law & Orders, CSI's, etc.; US news is of no relevance to me.) Nobody up here thinks twice, for instance, upon seeing a mixed-race couple—or a same-sex couple, for that matter. It's widely known that my ex- is Cree (or, more correctly, Cree-Scottish Metis). A previous girl-friend was French-black from British Guiana. With no exceptions, in both instances we were treated the same as any other couple.
We do have a somewhat peculiar phenomenon that superficially resembles racism but is actually more "groupism". I'm going to single out a couple of examples, but merely for the sake of illustration. It is not intended to demean any of them. The basis for it doesn't have anything to do with any particular race at all, but rather some noticeable group behaviour in which race is an identifying factor. (That didn't come out quite right, but it's the best that I can manage right now.)
When I'm in Calgary, for instance, I get a little tense in the presence of young Vietnamese men. That is based solely upon the fact that the 2 very violent gangs in Calgary are Fresh Off the Boat and Fresh Killers, both of which are composed of Vietnamese kids who immigrated for the specific purpose of criminal activities. Even though I wouldn't expect to be accosted directly by them, there has been a lot of collateral damage due to public gunfights between them. I don't want to get caught up in one.
In my own town, I occasionally cross the street or duck into a store to avoid Natives who appear aimless. (Obviously, given my marital history, I have nothing against Natives.) My problem is that I'm a little too well known to some who consider me an ATM. They can be quite persistent in their begging, and I sometimes just don't feel like dealing with it. Ironically, their incomes are about 8 times what mine is. Conversely, I will cross the street the opposite way in order to visit with some of them.
Both situations have a racial component, but it's coincidental. Neither race is inherently "bad" anymore than Italians are inherently bad because the Mafia exists or Irishmen are bad because of the IRA. Race is merely an identifying factor based upon the actions of a few highly visible members of said race.
In contrast, one of the first girls that I was really nuts about (although she was far too young for me) moved to my area from Detroit because people were trying to kill her father. He was a music professor at Wayne State University; his crime was that he was a black man who had possessed the unmitigated audacity to marry an Irish woman. On our side of the border, they were just another typical (albeit hugely intelligent) family.