Q-reeus said:
Your blog contrasted the 'yes' self-interaction/self-gravitation of quantum gravity theories with 'no' classical GR position that holds gravity does not gravitate - period. Not a contributor to SET in any form - period.
You apparently failed to read this in what you quoted:
"Gravity" in the two answers means two different things
The contrast I was drawing was *not* between a classical GR view of gravity and a quantum view of gravity. It was between two different meanings of the word "gravity": "gravity" as "the LHS of the EFE, vs. the RHS of the EFE" vs. "gravity" as "a massless, spin-two field". Gravity in the first sense does not gravitate; gravity in the second sense does.
*Both* of these senses of the word "gravity" are part of GR, and *both* answers to the question are part of GR. I was most emphatically *not* trying to contrast a "GR answer" to the question with some other theory's answer. To briefly recap what I said in the blog post:
(1) The EFE has "gravity" on the LHS, and "stress-energy" on the RHS. The RHS is the "source" that produces the gravity on the LHS, and there is no "stress-energy due to gravity" on the RHS of the EFE. So in this sense, gravity does not gravitate.
(2) The EFE is nonlinear, because the action it is derived from (the Einstein-Hilbert action) is nonlinear, because that action is the classical limit of the quantum field theory of a massless, spin-two field, which is nonlinear. "Nonlinear" means "self-interacting". So in this sense, gravity does gravitate.
Notice that *both* answers refer to the EFE; *both* answers are therefore "GR" answers. They just refer to different properties of the EFE, which is why they are different answers.
Q-reeus said:
can't tolerate the blatantly conflicting statements you have made here.
There is no conflict. You need to read more carefully. What's more, you need (IMO) to read with a real intent to understand, instead of just looking for things you can contradict.
This material is not easy; I understand that. I have been reading about GR, thinking about it, working problems in it, and discussing it with others, for about 25 years now. Many people here on PF have been doing it longer than that. We know this is not stuff you can grasp overnight. But coming into it with the attitude that "if I see an apparent contradiction and nobody can explain it to my satisfaction, GR must be wrong, inconsistent, flawed, etc." is not likely to get you anywhere. The fact that the theory *is* consistent and experimentally verified (to 14 decimal places) within its domain of applicability does *not* guarantee that there will be an explanation for it that you can intuitively grasp.
Your response to this is basically "I trust my intuition more than I trust your assertions that the theory is correct even though you can't explain it to my satisfaction." I understand that that seems like a reasonable response to you. That doesn't change the fact that it's wrong. Nature doesn't care about your intuitions. It doesn't care about *my* intuitions. It also doesn't care about whether I can explain to you why the things I am saying are correct.
Also, to be clear, I am *not* saying that you should just abandon your intuitions and blindly accept what I am telling you, or what anyone else here on PF is telling you. Feynman, who has been quoted several times now in this discussion, once said: "What I cannot create, I do not understand". I'm the same way, and I suspect you are too. The things I am saying in these threads, and that I put into my blog posts, are things I have created; that's the only way I can understand them. Of course my "creations" aren't original; I'm just rediscovering for myself paths of reasoning that many, many people have followed before me. But I only understand the paths that *I* have followed myself.
The reason I'm responding to your questions is that I hope that, at some point, one of those paths of reasoning will open up for you. I have been assuming that that's why you are posing the questions in the first place: here's this theory that everybody says is correct, but you can't see any path of reasoning that gets you to where everybody says they are, and you would like some help in finding it. I understand that it's frustrating when people keep on insisting there's a path, and pointing in various directions, and all you see is underbrush. Unfortunately, that's just an indication of how hard the paths are to find in this neck of the woods.