Chris Hillman has answered the technical points of your post, so I won't repeat what has already been said. However, I would still like to comment on something
True, I do disagree with the notion of relativistic mass (as Einstein*), since the actual definition, is somewhat misleading and as Chris Hillman said, it is much better to consider it kinetic energy in SR. However, another reason I disagree with its use is that it usually only serves to complicate problems (especially conceptual ones), as this thread exemplifies. For example, a common 'definition' of 'relativistic mass' is, as I'm sure you know;
m=\gamma m_{0} = \frac{m_{0}}{\sqrt{1-\beta}}
Using this definition, how can you claim that a photon has relativistic mass?
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*And before the replies come flying in, no I am not comparing myself to Einstein.