Looking 4 GF: 20 YO Engineer, Any Girls?

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The discussion revolves around a 20-year-old engineering student seeking a girlfriend, prompting various responses from forum members. Many participants advise against actively searching for a girlfriend, suggesting instead that he focus on personal growth and living life fully. They emphasize that relationships can be time-consuming and expensive, recommending that he wait until he has a job or a degree before pursuing a serious relationship. Some suggest engaging in social activities, improving personal appearance, and building an interesting lifestyle to attract potential partners. The conversation also touches on the importance of casual interactions with women, advocating for a mindset of enjoying conversations without the immediate goal of dating. Overall, the consensus is to prioritize personal development over the pursuit of a girlfriend.
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i m 20, doing engineering ...but have't found FG yet...so is any girl there to be a GF of mine...tnx
 
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nope, sorry.
 
I will be your gf
 
ha ha cool girl. Bravooo
 
flyingpig said:
I will be your gf

what is the gurentee that you are a girl....? hehe
 
sohail queshi said:
what is the gurentee that you are a girl....? hehe

He is a girl.
 
Pengwuino said:
He is a girl.

haha..funny ha...!
 
Don't look for a girlfriend, it's useless. Just live your life and eventually you'll meet some very special persons who you want to be with for the rest of your life.
 
micromass said:
Don't look for a girlfriend, it's useless. Just live your life and eventually you'll meet some very special persons who you want to be with for the rest of your life.

i think so...
 
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I am also 20 doing engineering but I plan not to have GF for 4 or 5 years from now
 
  • #11
Might I suggest, wait til you have a degree to get a gf
 
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mcknia07 said:
Might I suggest, wait til you have a degree to get a gf
I'd go a bit farther and suggest that unless you fall into a perfect relationship, you should wait until you have a JOB to get a GF. GFs can be expensive and time-consuming.
 
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micromass said:
Don't look for a girlfriend, it's useless. Just live your life and eventually you'll meet some very special persons who you want to be with for the rest of your life.

Says the guy on Okcupid
 
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Pengwuino said:
Says the [STRIKE]guy[/STRIKE] gal on Okcupid

Fixed that for you.
 
  • #15
Im pretty sure you want sex, not a girlfriend.

Sex is easier to come by, though still difficult.
 
  • #16
turbo said:
I'd go a bit farther and suggest that unless you fall into a perfect relationship, you should wait until you have a JOB to get a GF. GFs can be expensive and time-consuming.

... and soul sucking. You forgot that part.

It's an endless cycle. You look for a GF when you don't have one. You look for ways to get rid of a gf when you do have one (see the thread about not knowing how to dump someone).

In fact, can we merge these two threads? (https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=515451) Seems to me that would solve some problems for both groups of people. (Provided the original poster doesn't mind a used girlfriend, of course.)
 
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sohail queshi said:
i m 20, doing engineering ...but have't found FG yet...so is any girl there to be a GF of mine...tnx

What's FG anyway?:biggrin:

PS: I suggest PF as your gf!
 
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http://www.sha.tc/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/be-an-engineer.jpg :P
 
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micromass said:
Don't look for a girlfriend, it's useless. Just live your life and eventually you'll meet some very special persons who you want to be with for the rest of your life.

*like*
 
  • #20
Why would you wait to find a girl? You're a young guy, go find a girl.

First step: talk to a girl
Second step: make her attracted to you

How?

Highlight what is exciting, interesting, unique, and attention-grabbing about you. Are you not exciting, interesting, unique, or attention grabbing? Well, start working on your life then. Go do things that are cool, fun, interesting, new. Make yourself an attractive person by living an attractive lifestyle.

The way to get chicks is to make chicks want you. Can't do that at a computer. Go out there, live life, have fun, then regale chicks with your cool stories and badass experiences. They'll come a'flockin.

Taking care of your appearance helps a lot too. Girls aren't as shallow as men are, but looking good can only help you.

How to kill 2 birds with one stone:

Go to a clothing store and ask a girl her opinion on a shirt. Then tell her about the awesome things you're going to do with that shirt.

Guy: ''Hey, honest answer, which shirt do you like better, this one or that?''
Girl: "Umm, they're both nice...''
Guy: "I'm going to this Latin Music Festival and I want to make sure I have the right flair.''
Girl: ''Hmm, maybe that shirt would be better than the other one''

Continue chatting, get her number, invite her out.

Just don't go weirding girls out. Might take some practice if you're new at it.
 
  • #21
Lisa! said:
What's FG anyway?:biggrin:

Fire Giant. He's looking for a Fire Giant to be his girlfriend. Kinky.
 
  • #22
Jack21222 said:
Fire Giant. He's looking for a Fire Giant to be his girlfriend. Kinky.

ROFL...

Fire giant !
 
  • #23
You can try to attend more parties and gatherings. You can even try online dating. This way you can find a gf. However, if you cannot finance a possible marriage, do not find one yet.
 
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sohail queshi said:
i m 20, doing engineering ...but have't found FG yet...so is any girl there to be a GF of mine...tnx

First, you need the right mentality.

You should meet a lot of women, but NONE of your first interactions of them should be with the intent of finding a girlfriend.

Just meet a lot of women and make it solely your goal to have a fun conversation for that moment.

After you two get to know each other, then decide.
a - we did not get along. i won't see her again.
b - we got along, but just as friends
c - maybe there is potential dating.

But not any time before then.
 
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