MikeeMiracle said:
The rate of the "flow of time" of an object is dependant it's speed and it's proximity to other objects. The faster an object travel's, the slower it's "flow of time." The closer the object is to another object, the slower it's "flow of time."
There is a way to define "the flow of time" so that this is true, but (a) it's not a very useful way, and (b) it only applies to a certain special class of spacetimes.
A much more useful way to define "the flow of time" of an object is proper time along its worldline. By that definition, as
@phinds has already pointed out, the "flow of time" is the same for all objects: 1 second per second.
(Note that here we are only talking about objects like us that move on timelike worldlines. Trying to discuss light and things that move on null worldlines raises a whole other set of issues.)
MikeeMiracle said:
For special relativity a simple way to view it is as you currently traveling through "spacetime" (not space) at the "speed of light."
This view has many limitations, which is why you will only find it in pop science books and articles and not in actual textbooks or peer-reviewed papers. Brian Greene's popularizations of this view probably come close to holding a PF record for the number of threads started based on a misunderstanding.
MikeeMiracle said:
If you draw a graph with speed one 1 axis and time on the other, you can see that if you travel through space at the "speed of light" you are not traveling through time, if you travel through time at the "speed of light," your are not traveling through space.
Unfortunately, such a graph misrepresents the physics because it is not a spacetime diagram and it does not properly map events in spacetime to points in the graph.
First, since your proper time always advances along your worldline at one second per second, it's not possible to not travel through time. (Note that light itself, which travels at the speed of light, moves on null worldlines and its behavior in this respect is discontinuous from that of timelike objects--another way in which the graph you describe misrepresents the physics, since it makes the transition from "almost at the speed of light" to "at the speed of light" seem continuous when in fact it is not. The concept of "proper time" and the concept of "speed through spacetime" derived from it do not even make sense for light.)
Second, there is no invariant notion of "not traveling through space", because, as you yourself have recognized, space and time are interconnected and can't be separated. The only invariants are relative motions--you can say that you and I are at rest relative to each other (if we are), but neither of us can say that we are "at rest" (not moving through space) in any absolute sense.
MikeeMiracle said:
For general relativity, objects warp the space around them.
No, they warp
spacetime. Big difference.
MikeeMiracle said:
The more mass an object has, the more it warps space. The more that space is warped, the slower the "flow of time" is in that warped space.
No, this is wrong. For the spacetimes in which the "warped space" description makes sense at all (which is the special class of spacetimes I mentioned above for which the "flow of time" concept you were trying to use makes sense), the effect on "flow of time" of objects at rest relative to the gravitating mass (or moving slowly relative to it) actually comes from warpage of
time, not space; space warpage only becomes significant for objects moving at or near the speed of light relative to the gravitating mass, and it shows up in effects like light bending, not "flow of time".
MikeeMiracle said:
my source for this is example a CassioPeia video here
The "rubber sheet" analogy shown in this video is misleading because it only depicts warpage of space, not time, and as I noted above, the effect on "flow of time" in spacetimes like this comes from time warpage and can't even be shown in the "rubber sheet" diagram.