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ShawnD said:
you are so right man ! I never thought of that ! that is why I need advice of geeks and "losers"
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A user shares their experience of meeting an attractive girl at Starbucks, who gave them her email before they leave for a three to four-month trip to visit family 6,000 km away. The user expresses concern about how to maintain contact and potentially pursue a relationship given the distance. Suggestions include going on a date before leaving, keeping in touch through email, and being cautious about the girl's intentions. The conversation shifts to the challenges of long-distance relationships, with some participants emphasizing the importance of not canceling plans for someone just met, while others encourage exploring the connection. There are humorous exchanges about the girl's motives and the user's dating history, with a consensus that while pursuing a friendship is fine, it's essential to manage expectations realistically. The discussion also touches on perceptions of European women being more approachable than North American women, though opinions vary. Overall, the thread highlights the complexities of modern dating, especially across distances.
you are so right man ! I never thought of that ! that is why I need advice of geeks and "losers"
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Just because he described her as 'hot' doesn't mean that there wasn't something deeper there as well. Only he and she know about that. I've made lifelong friends under the same circumstances, although not of a romantic sort. Even if that's the only potential, then it is a good reason to keep in touch. As for the e-mail being hers, all he has to do is use it and see if there's a response. It won't cost him anything to be wrong.whozum said:
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Danger said:
I never said there wasnt something more, I'm just saying that if he is looking for something romantic (which he did mention) then there are plenty more fish in the sea at a more ideal situation, rather than cross country relationships.
Danger said:
It won't cost him anything to be wrong, but if he over prepares and over excites himself (and it turns out to be fake), then he will just be in for a big let down. Make sure the emails real, that way he won't risk that.
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I can only assume that you are in a bigger social group than I am. I can't afford to waste any opportunity.whozum said:
I see what you mean now, and agree. I thought that you meant he would get scammed.whozum said:
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Moonbear said:
I couldn't agree more.
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I found that girls from europe are more approachable and often nicer than N.American girls. what is your experience dudes ?
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It seems to be somewhat true, although I haven't met a lot of them. There could be just as many unfriendly ones that I haven't encountered. Also, some might be on their best behaviour because they're conducting themselves as guests here. Percentage-wise, they're probably all the same.stoned said: