I agree that it is essential that the starting point for the use of Maths in a Science question must be with a valid model but, particularly when you are dealing with a well established bit of Science, you can use the results with confidence. If the sums tell you that you get a certain vector in such a direction then you will get that vector and you've solved the problem.
How can you be anything like sure that your non-maths based conclusions have even a chance of being correct? Science is a rule-based discipline and rejecting Maths as a way into it is just shooting yourself in the foot. It shows common patterns in all sorts of circumstances and, as such, it gives you a way into new topics. OK, you don't like Maths. But you need to get over that problem and start to treat Maths as a tool and an aid. Why do you think it is so universally used? It's certainly not because it's easy - it has to be because it works. If you find it too difficult then you may have to accept (as we all do at some point) that a particular door is closed to you and you just have to 'accept' certain things without a 'good' understanding.
Examine your use of Maths in more familiar circumstances - like your finances, for instance. Would you rather accept the result of a compound interest calculation on a loan or would you just believe a salesman who tells you that you can afford it? In that instance, you are familiar with the Maths and will use it without question. (I should hope).
You have ot bear in mind that Science never really took off until they used Maths.