andrew s 1905 said:
That may well be strictly correct but would leave a very sterile physics as so few "objects" are directly observable. No electrons, protons, Higgs.
The math certainly has quantities in it which can be labeled as "electrons", "protons", "Higgs particles", etc. But those quantities (for the most part) are not direct observables. Describing those quantities as "electrons", "protons", "Higgs", etc. is not necessary to predicting the values of the direct observables, which are what we actually compare with experiments; we do it because it helps us conceptualize what is going on, not because it is necessary to the model.
This also ties into the other issue you raised, about words having different meanings to scientists and non-scientists. When a non-scientist hears the word "electron", he probably thinks of a tiny little billiard ball zipping around. But the scientist actually means a quantity in the mathematical model--in our most fundamental current model, it's a quantum field. This mathematical quantity does not correspond to anything in an ordinary person's intuition, so calling it an "object" is already a stretch, and there is no other ordinary language word that captures it any better. So the best a scientist can do is to emphasize that all of the ordinary language descriptions are at best heuristic, and that the only precise description is the math. That's not "sterile" physics; it's precise physics. The fundamental quantities in our models are unlike anything in your ordinary experience, so physicists should not use language that suggests that they are--and there is no ordinary language that doesn't.
andrew s 1905 said:
Do the equations describe a spaceship in flight or the stock exchange?
What actual observations do the direct observables in the mathematical model correspond to? If they correspond to the position, velocity, acceleration, mass, etc. of a space ship, then the equations are describing a space ship. If they correspond to stock prices, price changes, etc., then the equations are describing the stock exchange.
My point is that the link between scientific models and reality is not in the names we give to internal objects in the models; it is in the correspondence between the direct observables in the models and our actual observations. You can give names to internal objects all you want, but if you don't know what the direct observables correspond to, you don't know if your names for the internal objects are the right ones.